Lydia over at Ever Ours and the girls at Utterly Engaged put together a disaster relief fund for bloggers and wedding industry professionals to donate to and are encouraging bloggers to take part in a day of silence in solidarity with Japan. The goal was to raise $5,500 (enough for 5 shelter boxes) but so far they have raised over $16,000!!!!! ... if you can please log on and donate anything you can to this cause... and if you can participate in the day of silence I will be right there with you.